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07/27/09
SUPERMAN in New York!!
Filed under: General
Posted by: Steve @ 8:25 am
 

About 10 years ago, I saw this man breaking up a fight between two guys.

 

Granted I was very entertained at the fact SUPERMAN was breakin up a fist fight in Gotham.

Things have gotten SO BAD in New York with the economy,
 

SUPERMAN has NOW resorted to selling designer handbags on the street!!!

 

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07/16/09
Confessions of a World Traveller
Filed under: General
Posted by: Steve @ 9:45 am

As we grow older, we often get insights from our parents which we’d never imagined or taken notice at an earlier age. These bits of conversation sometimes come out of no where. Yesterdays, conversation started from a peruse through a stamp album, each country defined by it’s stamps.

It may be an old art and one taken for granted nowadays. Frankly, you need time, energy or plain obsession to go through a world of stamps. I have the guilty pleasure of being currently OBSESSED with the fuckin things. I try and view it from several angles. It’s working my memory (which constantly seems to be fading) and allowing me to grab a sense of style when it comes to history. When you view these little things you not just see color and beauty, but you get content- information. For example, those done around the 1920’s- 30’s may have a sense of art deco which happened worldwide. This information nowadays is sought through multiple avenues like google, yahoo, and other computer references.

Anyways, I regress. Yesterday, I was with my father who recently turned 79. He’s always had a facination with the things, and perhaps it’s where I get my interest. We compare notes and although he has a great ability to be artistic, he limits this use to decoration of the garden (how English) or the decor of his home. He does have an appreciation of beauty, which is why I brought him the album.

When you’re young, you’re often so wrapped up in what immediately happens to you, you neglect the facts of what might happen outside your own world and in the world of your elders. I knew my father often faced dangerous situations in his travels to other countries (84 in total), but I only find these stories occasionally surface as a “grown up”.

As he glanced through the pages, he came across Gabon. He says to my mother- “Do you remember when I lost my luggage there?” and he tells me a brief story. He searches once again and crosses Libya. The story began……

My father was in negotiations with a company in Bulgaria that concluded late in the evening causing a missed flight to Istanbul at 10pm. In his efforts to get to Turkey that evening, he was able to rebook his flight on a small charter at 11:30pm. He hadn’t realized until after the plane was booked the flight was Libyan. One week earlier the United States had bombed Libya (Kadafi) and killed 7 people. He went to the end of the line, hoping he could be discreet in showing his US passport. The Libyans patiently waited on line while constantly sharing glances. 

When it came time to show his passport, the man viewing said under his breath, “yank”. Everyone watched. 

Un-nerved by the time and the lack of people around, he made his way as best he could being nudged by libians here and there. When he boarded the plane, many of these men lit up cigarettes despite the non-smoking signs. My father approached his seat (a good one) but wasn’t allowed to sit there by these men. They pushed him to the back of the smoke filled plane where he took an empty seat. A harrowing ordeal in itself.

In transit, my father could hear them mock America. Again, smoking at their leisure in ignorance of the signs. Well, he kept his mouth shut and finished some hour and a half later in Istanbul some time after Midnight. 

When he went to the luggage turnstile to retrieve his bag, he found a Libyan walking away with it. He told him in ernest it was his, but when the man wouldn’t listen, my father latched on to it. He fought verbally with the man. It escalated. Other men surrounded him. The verbal assault got louder and an airport security guard came to investigate. My Dad told of the ordeal and of the man taking his bag. He offered to open the bag and show him the suitcase contents (locked under key). He told the guard to ask the other man if he could do the same. 

The other man couldn’t but STILL refused to give it up. An argument led to an altercation with these Libyans and backup came. Eventually, my Dad got his bag but none of the men were retained. He still had to get to his hotel from the airport at 1:30am by taxi, outside the airport….. NO security.  

He got a taxi and immediately two Libyans wanted to join him in the car. He resisted and shoved a $5 bill into the driver’s hands. The taxi driver “shoed” them out, locked the doors and drove off. With a sign of relief, he’d escaped. Until he bypassed the main route to the hotel. He shook the shoulder of the driver, “Hey, you pasted the main throughfare- it’s THAT way” and the driver who claimed not to speak English, nodded “no, this way’s better”. The car was leaving the city….

About a half hour later after watching the city landscape fade, the car pulls into a small village and parks. The taxi driver leaves my Dad in the car and disappears. Homeless people who lay on the curb get up and approach the car. He leans into the front of the cab and locks the doors. He waits patiently for the driver while these people bang on the windows and harass him from outside. The driver shows up about 1/2 hour later- the meter still running- gets back into the car and starts driving back to Istanbul. 

My father- a HOT headed Englishman- could only contain his rage. He watched the city come into view and the familiar streets he’d come to know over the years. The driver pulls before the Hilton and tells him the fare is $52.00. My father told him to give him his luggage which was locked in the trunk and he’d pay him. Another argument ensued. The concierge at the desk came out of the hotel to find out what the trouble was. 

“This driver won’t give me my bags,” he says. The driver responds, ”he won’t pay me”. My Dad asks the hotel worker, ”How much is a trip from the airport to the hotel?” The man says “Sixteen dollars”. ”Look at the taxi driver’s meter,” my Dad says. The Concierge sees, “Fifty-Two dollars! That’s RIDICULOUS!” He grabs a pen and paper and starts to write all the cab driver’s information down. He tells the man, “you’ll take $16 dollars and you better give this man his bag or tomorrow you’ll have NO job”. The driver had no choice and popped the trunk for my father’s suitcase. He pulled off in a rage and my father was safe. He immediately tipped the Concierge $10 just for his help. I mean, who knows what COULD have happened. 

I’ve heard many stories through out the years. The dangerous ones not so much. I’ve heard about him being chased with an Ice hook in Liverpool as a young man, going through a waterfilled foxhole in Egypt in military training, life threats in Indonesia, shrunken head markets in Borneo, fist size bugs in Malaysia, ruins in Guatamala, a water buffalo Feast for hyenas in Kenya, stone jumping for wives in the Far East, the dusty markets of Istanbul and Morocco, and many more. 

When I think of the explorations by National Geographic in the early 1900’s I’d imagine my father would have fit in fine as one of them. Stories of interest should never go unnoticed, perhaps it’s why I write this today. There’s a lesson here somewhere.

You figure it out. 

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07/02/09
Irony in the Fields
Filed under: General
Posted by: Steve @ 9:43 am
 

I’m going to try and blog more regularly, put myself on a hard core schedule of doing this once a day, even if it’s a small blurp. Time passes with fluidity and sometimes all we can do is absorb our surroundings. It’s not a bad thing, in fact, if you take the time to smell, taste, feel and see what’s around - it’s stimulus pays in more ways than you know.

The week has been one of adjustment. Kids have left school and I’ve changed hats to become “entertainer”. It’s difficult to drag myself away from my own work and for one obsessive individual like myself, down right hard! Soooooo, taking one thing like a visit to the dump and making the best of it, shows me a complete irony. I like the contrasts and enjoy finding the gems which REALLY make the world go around. Monday was like that.

I’ve decided to drop off my cut grass to the dump weekly. After only a few days, as most of you know, chopped grass amits the most putrid smell. Bugs dance for glory and men scatter for cover. On the edge of the compost area is a large hill where a society of model plane fliers fly their planes. Now this is no ordinary society. It’s one which consists of many retirees, some of them which were former pilots and down right interesting people . The planes are NO joke- some of them have wing spans of over 6 ft and are dismantled for transport to this haven on the hill. The secret behind the dump is one you’d never know was there except for a buzzing engine from the sky from an occasional flight of these motorized birds, it’s entirely UNSEEN.

I took my 8 year old up there on Monday after a near “sick” episode from old rotting grass. I was approached by the President of the AMA, who runs the organization and turns out to fly his plane. Evidently, he’s been flying the things for years. He was the only one there with the exception of Helmud- a retired German who drove a shiny new Cadallac and cut the grass. He’s also a big “flier”.

I told him I found out about the organization from a fair I’d been to and came up there to watch some of the flights- “explore” if you will. He was delighted. At the time, he’d arrived only minutes before me and there were no fliers operating. He pulled out this MASSIVE plane from his van and assembled it while we talked. He gassed the thing up with a small pump, checked the wind and launched the thing.

It was a magnificent flight. He showed my son his skills by flying upside down, loop d’loops, going straight up dropping out the engine and pulling out of a nose dive. It was a beautiful thing. The irony of this whole thing was the location. From this manicured lawn at the top of the hill surrounded by a plithera of weeds and grasses, you could see the enormous Mall complex- Palisades, the other wood filled mountains which surrounded it, the major highway of 87/287, and let me not forget THE DUMP. It was an oasis- a place for reflection, an imitation of life itself.

When my life comes to an end, I’d imagine I’d be on a hill like this one, contemplating the very existance and logic of how I shaped the world around me. There’d be those moments I’d be like the plane, operated by the reactions of others and doing my best to see from an “eye in the sky”. I’d watch the roads which brought me there, highways-like arteries of life- circulating around and getting me to my destination. I’d see the nature which often slips unnoticed, but presents a calming affect to the turmoil of an ambitious soul. AND then most of all, I’d listen to the surrounding stories- like those the retirees talk of. First and foremost in every thing we proceed to do, it’s most important to LISTEN. LEARN from those who have gone before us and take note on how it is they shape your attitude.

I was always raised to respect the elderly, for they have stories and experiences which young men and women have yet to see. When a young man (I like to think of myself as young even though my years are stacking quite quickly) and his son- a boy of eight, visit a “big kid hangout” on a quiet Monday morning when most men are hard at work- it’s a pleasure for them as much as it is for you. They get charged at being able to speak to people outside of the normal age group there and their family goings on- which I might add are usually stressful and medically related. The things you learn by being a fly on the wall compound and give you a great appreciation of the life you live.

I think there’s a story to be written there. I thought some time ago of writing a tale of “Man Kids” who were confined to a senior home by their children. They made it their job of whipping up the seniors into this “kid like” mentality and incorporate a vigor for living. I’ve seen many times when a person reaches those ages, they withdrawl instead of contribute. 

Next time, you’re around anyone who’s elderly- do me a favor and LISTEN. Engage them and find out more about their past. You may walk upon something which you never saw coming. It may turn the light switch, and without that- the world remains dark. 

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